Many men live with a quiet feeling that they are failing at something they were never properly shown in the first place. From an early age, we are handed a picture of what a “real man” is meant to be. Strong. Confident. In control. Persuasive. Successful. The one who carries everyone else’s problems without flinching and barely shows the weight of his own. Most of us find out quite quickly that we are not that man. We notice our insecurities. We feel the drag of self–doubt. We miss the mark...

if everything you do matters, then do what matters most.

As you know when it comes to self awareness introspection is crucial. However, how we do introspection tends to be very unhelpful and...